While Scripture doesn’t mention emotional abuse by name, it is easy to infer that God is not pleased with it. Consider what the Psalmist says: 

“The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:17-20

Dr. David B. Hawkins offers following advice to you if you are struggling with an emotionally abusive individual in your life:

First, learn all you can about emotional abuse. There is much written now about emotional abuse. Much more research and good information is available so you can learn about emotional abuse and what can be done about it.  

Second, end your silence about it. As the Psalmist says—cry out and the Lord will hear you and aid you in your struggles. Speak out. Know that emotional abuse is wrong and hurtful and can only perpetuate in silence. When you speak out you shine a light on the trauma that it is. When you speak out you claim your truth and refuse to enable something so destructive. 

Third, ask for support and encouragement. More and more people are ready to stand with you in ending emotional abuse. With support you will have greater confidence to bring these issues to light so that the perpetrator of emotional abuse must stop the abuse and get appropriate help. 

Fourth, speak out against emotional abuse. With support you will have greater courage to say the abuse is wrong and must stop. With support and strength you will heighten awareness of this huge problem and spur others to reach out for help as well. You will spur professionals to learn about and take action against this problem. 

Finally, hold onto your boundaries. Be clear, courageous and compelling. You are fighting a fierce but noble battle. Hold firm to your convictions and boundaries and you will increase the likelihood that change can occur.  

 “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33)